Domestic Violence and Protective Orders: How a Family Lawyer Can Help
- Meason & Morris Law
- May 6
- 4 min read
Experiencing domestic violence is frightening and overwhelming. Victims often feel scared, confused, and unsure of where to turn for help. If you or someone you know is facing abuse at home, it’s important to know that legal protection is available. A skilled family lawyer can play a critical role in helping victims of domestic violence take action to protect themselves and their loved ones.
At Meason & Morris Law, we understand the seriousness of these situations. In this blog, we explain how a family lawyer can help you seek a protective order, understand your rights, and start building a safer future.
Understanding Domestic Violence
Domestic violence isn’t just physical abuse. It can also include:
Emotional abuse
Verbal threats
Sexual abuse
Controlling behavior
Stalking and harassment
In Oklahoma, domestic violence is a crime. Victims have the legal right to seek protection from their abuser through the court system. A family lawyer can guide you through this legal process step-by-step.
What Is a Protective Order?
A protective order is a legal document issued by a court to help protect someone from abuse, threats, or harassment. In Oklahoma, there are different types of protective orders:
Emergency Protective Order (EPO)
An EPO is temporary and can be requested outside of normal court hours. It gives immediate protection and lasts until a hearing is held.
Temporary Protective Order (TPO)
This order is issued once the court is open and lasts until the court can hold a full hearing.
Final Protective Order
This is issued after a hearing where both parties can present their side. It can last up to five years or even longer, depending on the situation.
How a Family Lawyer Can Help You
Seeking a protective order may seem simple, but it can be legally complex and emotionally exhausting. A family lawyer helps by:
1. Explaining Your Rights
Victims of abuse may not know what legal protections they are entitled to. A family lawyer will explain your rights and help you understand what type of protective order you need.
2. Filing the Right Paperwork
Court forms can be confusing. Mistakes in paperwork can delay protection or result in your request being denied. Your lawyer ensures everything is completed properly and submitted on time.
3. Representing You in Court
You don’t have to face your abuser alone in the courtroom. A family lawyer stands beside you during hearings, speaks on your behalf, and makes sure your voice is heard.
4. Collecting Evidence
To get a protective order, you may need to show evidence of abuse. This can include photos, text messages, police reports, or witness statements. Your lawyer can help gather and organize this evidence.
5. Coordinating with Law Enforcement
If your case involves criminal charges or past police involvement, a family lawyer can work with law enforcement and prosecutors to strengthen your case.
Additional Legal Support from a Family Lawyer
Getting a protective order is just one step. A family lawyer can also help with other legal needs that often arise after abuse, such as:
Child Custody and Visitation
If children are involved, the court may need to decide who they live with and when the other parent can see them. A family lawyer can help:
Request supervised visitation
Modify custody arrangements for safety
Protect your parental rights while keeping your children safe
Divorce and Legal Separation
Many victims of domestic violence choose to end the relationship legally. A family lawyer can help you file for divorce, divide property, and seek financial support if needed.
Relocation and Emergency Planning
If you need to move away from the abuser for safety, your lawyer can help you:
Request court permission for relocation
Set up emergency plans
Connect with shelters or counseling services
How the Court Enforces Protective Orders
A protective order is more than just a piece of paper. Once granted, it becomes enforceable by law. This means:
Police can arrest the abuser for violating the order
The abuser may be ordered to stay away from your home, work, or school
The order can include temporary custody of children and financial support
A family lawyer can help make sure the court includes all necessary protections and can act quickly if the order is violated.
Overcoming Fear and Taking the First Step
Many victims are afraid to file for a protective order. They may worry about retaliation, feel unsure if their situation qualifies, or think the abuse isn't "serious enough." The truth is, no one deserves to live in fear. If you feel unsafe, you have the right to seek help.
A compassionate family lawyer understands how hard it is to come forward. At Meason & Morris Law, we listen without judgment, explain your options clearly, and stand with you through every step.
Why Choose Meason & Morris Law
Our team is committed to helping victims of domestic violence find safety and justice. We provide:
Confidential consultations
Respectful, nonjudgmental support
Legal experience you can trust
We understand the urgency of these cases and work quickly to protect you and your family.
Conclusion
Domestic violence can leave you feeling powerless, but you don't have to face it alone. A skilled family lawyer can help you take legal action to protect yourself, your children, and your future. From filing a protective order to addressing custody, divorce, and relocation, Meason & Morris Law is here to support you every step of the way.
If you're experiencing abuse, don't wait. Contact Meason & Morris Law today for a confidential consultation and take the first step toward safety.
Meason & Morris Law is a legal firm led by seasoned attorneys Marty Meason and Chris Morris. We provide a professional experience for all our clients, helping them navigate their legal rights. We focus on Criminal Justice Law (felonies and misdemeanors), Divorce and Family Law, Expungement and Felony Law, Probate Law and also have Trial experience. Serving Washington County, Nowata County, Osage County, Rogers County, Payne County, Pawnee County, and Kay County in Oklahoma.
Meason & Morris Law
515 Delaware Ave
Bartlesville, OK 74003
918-336-6300
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