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Divorce Questions to Ask Your Lawyer


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Meason & Morris Law helps you prepare with a list of questions to ask your divorce lawyer.

Going through a divorce can be a stressful and overwhelming experience. It's important to have a qualified attorney who can guide you through the process and protect your rights. Before your first meeting with your divorce lawyer, it's helpful to come prepared with a list of questions. This will help you make the most of your time and ensure that you understand the divorce process.


What are the Different Types of Divorce?


There are several different types of divorce, each with its own requirements and timelines. Your attorney can help you determine which type of divorce is best for your situation.


  • Contested Divorce: This is the most common type of divorce, where the parties cannot agree on the terms of the divorce. A trial will be necessary to resolve the issues.

  • Uncontested Divorce: This occurs when the parties agree on all aspects of the divorce.  These include property division, child custody, and spousal support. The process is typically faster and less expensive than a contested divorce.

  • Legal Separation: This is a temporary separation of the parties while they work out the terms of their divorce. It may be a good option if you need time to separate your finances or make arrangements for your children.

  • Collaborative Divorce: This is a more amicable approach to divorce. One where the parties work with their attorneys and other professionals to reach a settlement without going to court.


What Factors Will Affect the Length and Cost of My Divorce?


The length and cost of your divorce will depend on several factors, including:


  • The complexity of your case: If you have a simple, uncontested divorce, it may be resolved relatively quickly and at a lower cost. However, if your case involves complex issues such as child custody disputes, property division, or spousal support, it may take longer and be more expensive.

  • Whether you have children: Divorces involving children often take longer to resolve due to the need to establish child custody, child support, and parenting time arrangements.

  • The amount of property you own: If you have a significant amount of property or assets to divide, it may take longer to reach an agreement and increase the cost of your divorce.

  • Whether you can reach an agreement with your spouse: If you and your spouse can agree on the terms of your divorce, it is likely to be resolved more quickly and at a lower cost. However, if you cannot reach an agreement,your divorce may need to be resolved through trial, which can be time-consuming and expensive.

  • The jurisdiction where your divorce is filed: The laws and procedures governing divorce can vary from state to state. If you live in a state with complex divorce laws or a high caseload, it may take longer and be more expensive to resolve your divorce.

  • The quality of legal representation: Hiring a skilled and experienced divorce attorney can help you navigate the process more efficiently and effectively, potentially saving you time and money.


It's important to note that these are just some of the factors that can affect the length and cost of your divorce. Your attorney can give you a better estimate after reviewing your specific circumstances.


How Will Property Be Divided?


Property division is one of the most important issues that must be addressed in a divorce. Your attorney can help you understand the laws that apply to property division in your state.


In general, property is divided based on factors such as:


  • The length of the marriage

  • The contributions of each spouse to the marriage

  • The needs of each spouse


What Will Happen to My Children?


If you have children, child custody and child support will be important issues to address in your divorce. Your attorney can help you understand the laws that apply to child custody and child support in your state.


Child custody arrangements can be either physical custody or legal custody. Physical custody refers to where the children will live, while legal custody refers to who will make decisions about the children's upbringing.


Child support is a financial obligation that one parent owes to the other parent for the support of their children. The amount of child support is typically based on the income of both parents and the number of children.


What is Spousal Support?


Spousal support, also known as alimony, is a financial obligation that one spouse owes to the other spouse after the divorce. The amount of spousal support is typically based on factors such as the length of the marriage, the earning potential of each spouse, and the needs of each spouse.


What Should I Expect in Court?


If your divorce goes to trial, you will need to appear in court to testify. Your attorney will represent you and help you prepare for your testimony. The trial may take several days or weeks to complete.


How Can I Prepare for My First Meeting with My Attorney?


Before your first meeting with your attorney, it's important to gather all of the relevant documents, such as:


  • Your marriage license

  • Your tax returns

  • Your bank statements

  • Your credit card statements

  • Your retirement accounts

  • Any property deeds or titles


You should also be prepared to answer your attorney's questions about your marriage, your finances, and your plans for the future.


It's also a good idea to bring a list of questions to your first meeting with your attorney. This will help you make the most of your time and ensure that you understand the divorce process.


Choosing the Right Attorney


Choosing the right divorce attorney is important. You should look for an attorney who is experienced, knowledgeable, and compassionate. Your attorney should be able to answer your questions and guide you through the divorce process.


You can find divorce attorneys by searching online, asking for referrals from friends or family, or contacting your local bar association.


Going through a divorce can be a stressful and overwhelming experience. However, having a qualified attorney can help you navigate the process and protect your rights. By coming prepared to your first meeting with your attorney, you can ensure that you understand the divorce process and make the best decisions for your future.


Contact Meason & Morris Law


If you're facing a divorce, Meason & Morris Law is here to help. Our experienced attorneys can guide you through the process and protect your rights. We offer a variety of legal services, including:


  • Divorce

  • Child custody

  • Child support

  • Property division

  • Spousal support


Contact us today to schedule a free consultation. We are committed to providing you with the highest quality legal representation.


 

Meason & Morris Law is a legal firm led by seasoned attorneys Marty Meason and Chris Morris. We provide a professional experience for all our clients, helping them navigate their legal rights. We focus on Criminal Justice Law (felonies and misdemeanors), Divorce and Family Law, Expungement and Felony Law, Probate Law and also have Trial experience. We are currently accepting cases in Washington, Nowata, Osage and Rogers counties.


Meason & Morris Law

515 Delaware Ave

Bartlesville, OK 74003

918-336-6300

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